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The Real Efficiency Bottleneck Isn’t Planning, it’s Thrash
Why planning aversion isn’t productive and how to find the sweet spot
Sep 22
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Irina Stanescu
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August 2025
How to Think Like a VC When Evaluating a Startup Role
A venture capitalist inspired checklist for choosing your next startup role. The questions to ask before you invest your time and energy.
Aug 12
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Irina Stanescu
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Oana Olteanu
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July 2025
Lessons in Leadership from Formula 1: Christian Horner vs Toto Wolff
High pressure is a given in F1 and Tech. What changes everything is how you lead.
Jul 10
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Irina Stanescu
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June 2025
High Performers and The Cost of Relentless Self-Critique
If you want to perform at your best, you need to fire your inner critic and hire your inner friend instead.
Jun 20
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Irina Stanescu
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May 2025
Getting People to Listen is a Skill → Here’s Where to Start
A practical guide to understanding why your message isn’t getting through and what to do about it
May 15
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Irina Stanescu
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April 2025
How to Avoid Sleepwalking into Irrelevance in the Age of AI
Let’s be real: most people in tech are still too chill about AI.
Apr 23
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Irina Stanescu
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March 2025
What High Performers Know About Doing Hard Things
The mindset, habits, and brain science behind pushing through
Mar 27
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Irina Stanescu
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The Key to Asking Great Questions
Hint: It’s not just about what you ask, but how you ask it.
Mar 11
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Irina Stanescu
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February 2025
8 Guaranteed Ways to Annoy Your Senior Engineer
A comprehensive list of things that grind the gears of most software engineer, especially the seniors
Feb 12
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Irina Stanescu
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January 2025
Announcing: Re-launching "Impact through Influence"
Why I built this course and who it’s for.
Jan 29
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Irina Stanescu
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Mistakes to Avoid When Writing Self-Assessments
Tips to help you sound like the awesome human you are
Jan 17
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Irina Stanescu
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Setting Yourself Up for Success in 2025
By infusing clarity, purpose and focus in everything you do
Jan 8
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Irina Stanescu
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